Thank you so much for your love in visiting Randy.
In an effort to protect Randy in his time of need, and to allow him to continue to be his authentic self, please respect our families requests:
Randy frequently said,
"Food always looks more appetizing if it's in someone else's hand."
... and he means it! He has always eaten more if someone else is eating what he wants.
Before going into Randy's safe space, please feel free to grab a snack from the fridge and bring it in with you! This will encourage him to eat more and provide nutrients that he needs, wants and deserves.
Our bedroom is Randy's zen and safe space. Crying in here will only cause stress, intensify confusion and create a difficult atmosphere for Randy to be safe in.
Crying is natural, so if/when you feel you’re about to cry, please excuse yourself from our bedroom and make your way to the mediation room. Feel free to grab a snack, and/or go outside then come back in to visit Randy when you can!
Randy may get confused, and that's okay!
If you experience his confusion, this means he feels safe with you... so just go along with it.
Suggestion:
Ange will be there to help guide the conversation 💕
If you visit and Randy is resting, or if he starts to rest during your visit, please understand that he needs this rest.
Feel free to play with our puppies, hang out in the living room/kitchen with snacks until he is rested. You may also come back for another visit!
This is an extremely confusing time for Randy, so please stay positive! He thrives on positivity!
Some phrases that make him big smile are:
Random and/or sporadic noises can be triggering for Randy.
Please help keep a safe and zen environment by setting your technologies on vibrate, silent or off.
More than Randy's love for Notre Dame, Star Wars, Investing, the color Green, Guns and Winnie - all combined - Randy loves you!
He receives love by quality time, so reflecting on fun memories makes him feel more loved than you can possibly imagine.
If you want to share an image, video or other media, he will see it best on a bigger screen, so feel free to text it to him so he can review it on his iPad with you!
We are eternally grateful for all the visitors! From Brazil, London and more, Randy is overjoyed with love.
Thank you, forever
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